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Ed Stetzer Audio Conference
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bobby gilstrap
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Ed Stetzer Audio Conference
Ed Stetzer will be the featured guest for the September 18th Audio Conference for Pastors. The conference topic will be related to Stetezer’s latest book, Comeback Churches. In this 59-minute Audio Conference, Ed Stetzer will help participants discover what is necessary to turn a declining or dying church around to experience health and growth. The final 20-minutes are an open line Q&A with Dr. Stetzer.
For more information or to register for this FREE Audio Conference for Pastors, go to www.findMIchurch.org/AudioConference. Your only cost is your phone call.
MP3’s of past conferences are also available on the site, including:
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Dr. Eric Geiger, co-author with Dr. Thom Rainer (Topic: Simple Church Strategies)
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Pastor Jon Hays (Topic: Rekindling Evangelistic Passion)
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Dr. Johnny Hunt (Topic: Ministry That Matters)
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Dr. Ed Stetzer (Topic: Your Church’s Missional Ministry)
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Sarah Cunningham (Topic: Ministry to Twenty-Somethings)
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Mac Brunson & Ergan Caner (Topic: Why Churches Die)
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Wayne Harris (Topic: Strategically Developing Leaders)
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09-19-2007, 9:51 AM |
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Mike Cogland
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Joined on 07-14-2006
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Re: Ed Stetzer Audio Conference-Chat log
DreamAdvance: | Welcome |
bgilstrap to rob: | Welcome to the POST Audio Conference discussion of COMEBACK CHURCHES. |
bgilstrap: | Welcome to the POST Audio Conference discussion of COMEBACK CHURCHES. |
rob: | thanks for lining up the conference with ed, bg |
bgilstrap: | What did you find to be the most important item in today's discussion of churches that were able to COMEBACK? |
bgilstrap to rob: | Glad to ... went well for the most part. Sorry you had phone trouble. |
rob: | for me concerns about how to lead our church to "hurt for the lost" |
Chuck left this room. bgilstrap: | Rob expresses the issue of how to lead his church to "hurt for the lost' as a critical issue. How can we do that effectively? |
Pastor joined the room. rob: | ed intimated that it must begin with leaders' hearts |
djbanks joined the room. bgilstrap: | If Rob is accurate, then how can we as leaders experience HEART change? |
rob: | i'd pay real money to know! |
bgilstrap: | What
are some practical ways that we can lead our churches to "hurt for the
lost?" What are you doing or what have you seen be effective? |
djbanks: | Not
sure what Rob said, but I am finding that as I recognize my own
weakness, rather than trying to convince others of my strength, God is
able to work through me more effectively. |
djbanks: | I guess we might start by really hurting for the lost ourselves. We can talk about it all we want, but do we REALLY? |
bgilstrap: | For
those new to the chat room if you want to discuss with everyone, be
sure the box in teh bottom left corner of your scree says ALL or for an
individual ... you can identify who to speak to. |
bgilstrap: | Great point djbanks |
rob: | dj, if we do REALLY hurt for the lost, how do we express that? where do we go with that? what do you do? |
bgilstrap: | Do we really all hurt personally for lost persons. |
djbanks: | I
guess I am asking God to give me more of a passion for the lost. Then I
think it will come out in my sharing/preaching/teaching/living. |
bgilstrap: | Honestly, in my church starting experiences and pastoring established churches ... I found I had to make it a habit. |
rob: | what was/is your habit? |
bgilstrap: | You can make it a habit to love the lost, but you can make your efforts to reach the lost a habit. |
djbanks: | The
times I have recognized this hurt has been when we have been in the
context of sharing thorugh a musical or prison ministry and God has
simply "gotten a hold of me" for lack of a better expression. I wish I
could package it. |
Pastor: | we need to love the lost, so if you have someone you love that is lost start there and then all the lost. |
bgilstrap: | djbanks:
It would seem that those were times when God really raised your
awareness. Now ask yourself, what must I do on a more consistent basis
that will raise my awareness of the lost. |
djbanks: | Perhaps put myself in those settings more often? |
Pastor: | pray for God to show us |
bgilstrap: | Pastor:
I like your approach. Once we realize that God loves not only our
family, but all the lost, more than we can even imagine ... we must
acknowledge that he wants us to look at teh multitudes with compassion.
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djbanks: | I
liked what Ed said in the conference about not wanting to make the
answer to every question to pray more, but the answer to the question
is to pray more (something like that...) |
bgilstrap: | djbanks
- Practically speaking, needs are all around us. I remember homes I
have visited in where you could see right through the walls. They were
disconnected from God, but we first ministered to their needs. We began
to hurt for their lostness as a result of seeing their physical needs. |
bgilstrap: | So how should we pray? |
Norm joined the room. rob: | break our hearts, O Lord! |
djbanks: | I
am currently reading "The Jesus I Never Knew" by Yancey. Just seeing
Jesus in a new light is giving me a concern for those he was concerned
about rather than just my "church folks" |
bgilstrap to Norm: | Welcome Norm. Please join in the discussion. |
Norm: | thanks |
Norm: | I am curious about what tools are out there to help evaluate our leadership weaknesses and how to overcome them |
Pastor: | I
live in a small Eskimo village were I know everyone, maybe thats how
God taught me to love everyone by I do think that loving people is what
we need most. |
bgilstrap to Norm: | I
really see the problem in so many chuches where the focus gets off of
reaching people. As I mentioned, too many churches begin to focus on
Primping Up Property and Propping Up Programs. That is a maitenence
mentality that will just keep repeating itself. |
djbanks: | So
what about the neighbor I know is lost, but I can't honestly say...I
mean really honestly...that I love him. Therefore I find my fear of
talking to him about his relationship with God to be greater than my
love for him and concern for his soul. |
bgilstrap to Norm: | Norm - The serve Like Jesus materials are a really good starting point. ANYONE ELSE have some suggestions for Norn? |
Benjap joined the room. bgilstrap to Norm: | What falacy have we bought into that has us convienced that they aren't important? |
bgilstrap to Norm: | Welcome Benjap to the discussion ... jump on in Benjap |
Pastor: | Find one thing you like about your neighbor and maybe you will need someone to help you lol and stsrt there djbanks |
bgilstrap: | Pastor - you said,
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live in a small Eskimo village were I know everyone, maybe thats how
God taught me to love everyone by I do think that loving people is what
we need most. |
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Norm left the room. bgilstrap: | Pastor - I hit send to fast. When you know most everyone, we sometime fear hurting the relationship if we push Jesus too much. |
Pastor: | yes that is true |
Benjap: | While
I don't agree with his full premise, John Shore addresses some of the
attitude we believers have toward the world around us in I'M OK --
YOU'RE NOT. Namely that we come across as unloving when we try to
evangelize. What's the happy medium? How do we implement an intentional
evangelism strategy without being "mercenary"? |
Pastor: | but we just keep on building the relstionship and asking God to will us be a good witness |
bgilstrap to rob: | Rob
ask "What was/is you habit?" Personally in reaching the lost in my
community, I kept maticulous records and set aside designated time
every week to go and build relationships with the lost. Sometime that
was home visits, sometime I would stand in the Post Office and reread
my mail for 4 hours (small town) because I saw half the town. It might
have been hanging out at the ball park. I just FORCED myself to be out
there with the lost to try to be reminded of their great need for
Jesus. |
tripp left this room. bgilstrap to rob: | Benjap
- Great question. In our post-modern era, Evangelism must be viewed as
a process that occurs through relationships, trust and example. People
ARE watching! We must be concerned with people's experiencing the
reality of living under the reign of God's Kingdom rather than being
driven by "getting people into heaven." |
Pastor: | That is what it is all about rob, with the Eskimo people that get to work with relationship are everything. |
bgilstrap: | Benjap
- Great question. In our post-modern era, Evangelism must be viewed as
a process that occurs through relationships, trust and example. People
ARE watching! We must be concerned with people's experiencing the
reality of living under the reign of God's Kingdom rather than being
driven by "getting people into heaven." |
bgilstrap: | In
days past we view evangelism as being done by evangelist ... but today,
we must grasp the concept that evangelism must be a part of being a
disciple. Evangelism is done by disciples. Evangelism is an ongoing
conversation and not just a message in the mentality of today's world. |
Pastor: | My ministry is NOT with in the 4 walls of my church building. But the hold Village. |
Benjap: | For
me it comes down to the "hanging out at the post office" idea. Meeting
people where they are, building the relatioship, earning the right to
be heard. |
rob: | these
have been great and helpful comments. thanks to you all. how do you
foster and pass on accountability for your passion for the lost? |
bgilstrap: | Hee. It was amazing how boring my mail was after the third or fourth read but how interesting people became. |
rob: | ![]() |
bgilstrap: | ROB
- I remember Dr. Dan Crawford at SWBTS telling us that he submitted an
evangelistic report every month to the seminary's president. He was
never asked ... he did it because it kept him accountable. |
Benjap: | People will listen when they don't smell an agenda. So, how do we translate that into the church as a whole setting? |
djbanks to Pastor: | Pastor: This is David Banks ub Eagle River. Is this John? or who? |
djbanks to Pastor: | Sorry, that was to be to only Pastor |
rob: | now we all want to know who Pastor is! ![]() |
bgilstrap: | Our church planters / starters all submit a monthly report for accounibility. |
Mike Cogland whisper DreamAdvance: | Tim? |
djbanks: | I
once heard some resentment from a church planter about the
accountability thing with NAMB, but I really like the voluntary
accountability that Bobby mentioned |
rob: | the
accountability you are describing feels to ... institutional to me, bg.
i am longing for a more ... natural accountability ... that shared by
brothers on the same journey |
Pastor: | Yey its John |
bgilstrap: | The
best accountability I have ever experienced in my ministry was peer
accountability. Five other pastors and I met together every month for
an entire day. Discussed ministry issues and reported monthly to each
other and no one else. |
Benjap: | Accountability
is always an issue, on so many levels. I have a friend who still
believes that pastors are special and should not answer to anyone --
about anything! |
rob: | i like that |
Mike Cogland: | FYI...hey guys, if you check the box next to the name you want to send a private message to, then it will be private. Chat on! |
Pastor: | Pastor John of Kiana Alaska |
rob: | the
most productive accountability i have ever experienced was with the
first senior pastor i served alongside. we did more than report. we did
evangelism together. |
rob: | now, as a senior pastor myseolf, i am having some difficulty passing on that germ to my associate |
bgilstrap: | Let
me redirect back to our topic .... How do think that accountability can
play into helping us lead our churches to be COMEBACK CHURCHES |
Benjap: | Rob, that's a great idea, because (like in COMEBACK CHURCHES ) it provides for the pastor to model the behavior he expects out of others. |
rob: | in response to bg, make disciples |
rob: | do life together with 3-4 men ... men who will reproduce the same in their own circles of influence |
rob: | do life ... and ministry together |
Pastor to djbanks: | Yes Kim and I will be there. |
djbanks: | I
believe that we often talk a talk that we are not necessarily walking.
That was what I was talking about earlier about my neighbor. I'm almost
afraid to tell someone to do something that I am not personally
doing...afraid God will perhaps not so subtly remind me. |
bgilstrap: | That take time ... aren't we too busy trying to lead our churches to COMEBACK? ![]() |
rob: | now that's a cunundrum, eh? |
Benjap: | Speaking
of modelling: I found the story about Hybels purposefully sailing with
a crew of nonbelievers. I'd love to inject my interests into a group
like that, but like most long-time believers, I find that (1) Most of
my friends are believers, and (2) many of my activities are those that
only believers would find of interest. |
rob: | conundrum, i mena |
djbanks: | If so, maybe we're just TOO BUSY |
rob: | mean, i mean ![]() |
bgilstrap: | Rob ... we shouldn't use such language among friends. |
rob: | bg, ... no comment. dj, i think you're on to something |
Benjap left this room. djbanks: | Thanks
so much, guys, for good discussion, and Bobby for the conference. I'll
"come back". Or should I use the over familiar "I'll be back. (can't
put the accent in on the computer)" |
bgilstrap: | So
if we're going to stay as the pastor of our church and WE ARE going to
be the one that God uses to help our church COMEBACK ... then what is
most important? Making disciples? Or something else? |
djbanks left this room. rob: | yes |
rob: | sorry, couldn't resist. |
bgilstrap: | Pitiful! |
rob: | bg,
i think the most important thing we can do is make disciples. as we
devote ourselves to that process we stand a very good chance of getting
much if not most of all the other stuff done that really matters |
rob: | the
rub is that we as professional Christians and our churches as our
"employers" have tended to make the other stuff the main stuff |
bgilstrap: | Great
point. We must be incarnational and not so much attractional in our
ecclesiology. By that I mean creating specific areas where unbelievers
can encounter the gospel and begin thier journey. |
rob: | for
example, i am more than a little concerned with our ACP (are we all SBC
here?) this year,. this first year of my ministry here. but i am
committed to a long-term strategy that may not produce ACP success for
another 3-5-7 years. |
rob: | incarnational vs attractional ... now who's using inappropriate language? just kidding. helpful that |
bgilstrap: | Okay, you opened the door ... |
rob: | you
referenced the beginning of a journey. my experience, all too
shamefully and sadly is that we have limited the journey to a dunking
booth |
rob: | beyond
that, i am confessing, we do precious little to help new believer - the
most potent force in an unbelieving circle - make a difference in their
world |
bgilstrap: | Can
we actually measure when we are seeking to disassemble (not necessarily
bad) the "church" and allow Christ to seep into the cracks and crevices
of a world that needs Christ but has yet to meet him. |
bgilstrap: | Now we can measure the dunking booth! ![]() |
bgilstrap: | That is what the ACP is for ... huh? |
rob: | wow ... i think your last question was a great question ... i think. i am trying to make sure i understand it |
rob: | not the ACp question ... the disassemble question |
Benjap joined the room. rob: | i
do not want to sound too critical of the ACP. i have enjoyed the
pleasure of seeing how our brothers and sisters have tried to create a
tool that will serve kingdom ends there at LifeWay. |
bgilstrap: | They kind of go hand and hand ... how do we measure those incarnational relationships ... ministries ... |
rob: | i am more critical of my own traxck record and the evidence the ACP reflects |
bgilstrap: | Of course, ACP is only a human tool to discern God's movement .. ... ... ... or lack thereof. |
rob: | how do we measure those incarnational relationships? hmmm |
bgilstrap: | Good Question? Any ideas Guys? |
rob: | one
person at a time ... one person in a covenant community accountable to
other believers who are on the same path ... a community, small group
that expects and inspects the members of their group for faithfulness
and fruitfulness |
rob: | i
have sipped from that kind of fountain before. now i long for large
gulps from such a fellowship again ... this time in a church that needs
to make a comeback |
bgilstrap: | BACK
ON TOPIC .... to see churches COMEBACK and really impact a lost culture
... they must emerge into a reproducing community of genuine
disciples who abandon themselves to passionately seek the heart of
God and to live out His mission to reach all peoples in their community
and around the world. |
rob: | i'm sorry. i didn't realize i was off topic |
Mike Cogland whisper DreamAdvance: | Tim |
bgilstrap: | My
time has expired for our discussion. Thanks for your participation in
our CHAT and today's Audio Conference with Ed Stetzer. I pray that you
can join us again next month on October 16th when we will host Dr.
H.B.London. |
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